Here it is again!!!...

If you have broke up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend… if you’re divorced…  or something like this…

 This is the place where we can talk about this kind of things!!

                                     Jazy  

Hello Jazy !! I'm divorced for almost 5 years , and I like my "freedom" a lot , because my ex husband wasn't such a nice guy !! But at this time of the year I sometimes long for a man , because it's not nice when you're alone at Christmas and New Yearsday for example ! I have my son and my family , but a boyfriend's just different !! Maybe some day I will meet someone .....My love for Keane really helped me so much on lonely moments and I'm so much happier when I met all the other Keane fans on the forum ! All of you and Keane are my lifesavers !!!!

Hi again Ellen!.

Yes, I understand exactly what you meant... I don't have a boyfriend since a really long time and though sometimes it's better be alone... somedays you begin to imagine how it'd be if you'd be with someone...

I think that is like a miracle meet the person that was made for you, at the right moment and at the right place... 

In those moments I feel a bit like 'Sunshine' when it says 'Can anybody find their home?'... I really love this song... 

Hi there!( again...)

Hey Jazy, you did it! The Singles Thread is back, HURRAY!!!!

So, we are at the end of this year, and I'm still single... Sometimes I feel sad about it. But on the other side, it allows me to "relativise" the things.

I broke up with Nicolas since 2 years now. He is a nice and generous man. But too "stuffy"and down to the earth. We were together for 5 years. We had very good times and very verry dificult ones too. Those difficult times opened my eyes to a lot of things. One of those things was that Nicolas is not the man that I need by my side. I tryied to explain it to him. He didn't want to accept it at the first time because apparently, I was the woman of he's life. But, I didn't rush the things. And ,as it was me who decided to breake up, I gave him the time he needed. He saw other people after that. Me too. But nothing really interesting.

My hopes for the near futur?...Meet a guy. Will I recognize him? Not for sure! I'm really bad at that things...

But however, there's a few months, I flashed on a guy. But everybody told me that he's not free....I think that he knows what I feel for him.

His friends are aware of it too. And...it seems that he sends signals to me. Does it means something? Do you think that I have a chance? Or maybe

I misinterpreted the things...

Fingers crossed! ( everything crossed actually...)

 Hi everyone!!

Well… I wrote it all some minutes ago and my computer hang up and deleted it all… (I want to kill myself…)

 I’ll start again:

When I started the friendship with the guy that I talked you about I thought that he was sending me sings too… but then I realize that he had a girlfriend and I wanted to kill him (I’m not a killer… but, sometimes)

Anyway, I met somebody this year…

I started the High School and I met this guy… a friend of mine tried to make us be together, but… I don’t know what happened… I think that I was still thinking of the other boy…

The point is that he liked me ‘cause I thought that he was different and at the end I found that he was like all the other boys… anyway, as friends, we had good moments… we talked about Keane a few times, pretty text messages… he heard me singing Somewhere Only We Know as loud as I could (He must love me at that moment… to hear me singing…!!)… Sometimes he made me feel special… and some other times he made me feel specially bad!... but that’s all… we were just friends… and the other guy is still with his new girlfriend… so I’m alone…

Jazy:

Well… I wrote it all some minutes ago and my computer hang up and deleted it all… (I want to kill myself…)

Weird! The same happenned to me My computer is haunted

Jazy:

 

When I started the friendship with the guy that I talked you about I thought that he was sending me sings too… but then I realize that he had a girlfriend and I wanted to kill him (I’m not a killer… but, sometimes) 

I know that feeling...sometimes I drive myself wondering if he would come to me tomorrow or not...And I'm 29...???

Jazy:

[...] and at the end I found that he was like all the other boys… anyway, as friends, we had good moments… we talked about Keane a few times, pretty text messages… he heard me singing Somewhere Only We Know as loud as I could (He must love me at that moment… to hear me singing…!!)… Sometimes he made me feel special… and some other times he made me feel specially bad!... but that’s all… we were just friends… and the other guy is still with his new girlfriend… so I’m alone…

Oh...Jazy...come on! I'm convince that all the guys of the world are NOT all the same!

You're young as I can see. You'll have plenty of experience over the years.

I'm sure that you won't stay alone for so long.

Often, that's when you no longer looking for love that this love comes to you. Your best days are ahead. Lucky Jazy!!!...

 for everyone ^ ^ ^ ^

Yeah, I've been single for a little over 3 years now, I honestly LOVE being single!! I don't have to tell anyone anything about what I'm doing, I come & go as I please, I hang out with whoever the hell I want to hang out with & not feel burdened to keep my boyfriend around & tell him who what where when & how I'm doing things............... *sighs happily*

Well... I fell in love with a guy when I was in high school. He was really adorable, with shiny green eyes and nice blond hair, and a very nice physic(resembled Tom a bit!) He was so cheerful, so social, but he didn't care about his lessons. I was just the opposite:extremely asocial,usually depressive, and hardworking. Whenever he was near to me, I almost melted, and lost my ability to behave normally. I remember myself screaming behind him after the graduation night: "I'M GONNA MISS YOU SOOO!!!" I've never told him that I loved him, but after that scream, he must have understood it.

Time helped me a lot getting over it. However, I sometimes dream about him, think about him, and this annoys me. Why is it so hard to forget?

Now, I don't want to fall in love again, but seeing lovers around me, hugging and kissing, just makes me feel lonely and unhappy. I'm confused... I think I need to be loved...

Keaniemoshie:

Now, I don't want to fall in love again, but seeing lovers around me, hugging and kissing, just makes me feel lonely and unhappy. I'm confused... I think I need to be loved...

I know what you mean, I guess. Sometimes when I saw people hugging and kissing I got so jealous, but gladly I´m at the moment happy for them, even I don´t have someone for me. Am I egoistic? But I feel the burning desire or is it just an animal reflection????

Well, I´m now since 10 years divorced and this is the same time I´m single. O.k. minus some month after my divorce I had a boyfriend but just for some month as I had to split as I didn´t love him and he was also not really in love with me? I don´t know, this romantic things starts so nice, but then the rollercoaster takes his road down, really deep down. But maybe they are just lessons, which I have to learn? Like "Love is just a lyric in a children´s rhme" And New Years Day is not a really good day for me as maybe I always remember to a very sad experience, that I don´t want to tell, because is just depressing. But I´m afraid and quite sure that I will never forget, so have to find a way to live with it.

Ok, I did maybe very stupid things, too. I married with 19 years, even my family and friends weren´t very glad as I married my ex-husband. Sometimes, when my past comes to me or my thoughts run into the past, I think it´s like a bit like the movie of Tina Turner?

Otherwise, I think with my experiences I´ve learned a lot, even "hey life, couldn´t you have me teached them in a softer way?" Ok, ok, sometimes I´m a bit stubborn, but really only sometimes!

The best thing of my divorce is, that I know I´m a strong woman and that I can be proud of myself! I´m sure that others would have been more confused and would live with more troubles as I do. For me was painting my healing and music of course, too! And my family!

The only thing I´m not sure is, is about the feeling to want to be loved and to give love, I think maybe I´m not ready or maybe is it, I didn´t find till now my next lesson of love?

Whatever it is, I know I have love in me and that I´m able to love and even I´m alone and reality or the world "says" to me you need someone, I mean I don´t want to force it as I was. So, when I get depressed, I try to do something, what gives me a good mood for my soul, but sometimes I can´t. Well, I guess that´s a human being life!

I hope I didn´t depress anybody Sorry, for writing that much! Well, I think I have to say and give everyone some words to brighten up this sad circumstances!

Everyone is beautiful, everyone deserves love and everyone is love!

I'm sure that we all have someone who loves us... (family, friends...)

And I'm also glad of be alone and do what I want, when I want... is just that sometimes I think that I need someone...

Anyway I think that we all have someone out there that was made for us... (can you understand me??)

We just need to find them... and I know that it's not so easy...

anyway.. I'm just 16... "What Do I Know??"...

Jazy:

I'm sure that we all have someone who loves us... (family, friends...)

And I'm also glad of be alone and do what I want, when I want... is just that sometimes I think that I need someone...

Anyway I think that we all have someone out there that was made for us... (can you understand me??)

We just need to find them... and I know that it's not so easy...

anyway.. I'm just 16... "What Do I Know??"...

No, you pointed at really true things. I strongly agree with you

Well, I'm just too young. Maybe, in somewhere, in sometime, I will meet the right person

That's exactly what I meant!! ^^...

 Well, I'm only 14, but I quite like this boy in my class (well I've liked him for aaages) but he's just not interested in me and he still flirts constantly with the girl he dumped a while back. I sit next to him in a few lessons and frequently mention Keane, deviantART and other stuff I'm interested in, but he says I'm 'sad' and I don't think I could ever go for somebody who doesn't appreciate what I like.

It's kinda like the Hamburg Song lyrics:

"Say a word or two to brighten my day"

Which may seem quite sad, but being 14 and not having a bf is apparently quite strange to most people in my family (especially when my 15 year old cousin is dating someone who is 19).  

Anyway, I've known him for about 5 years now, and he's suddenly started hanging out with a more popular crowd and has started skiving and using his phone in lesson, which he would never do in the past. I'm worried about him, even though I shouldn't be really, because it's non of my business. It's just that the side of him I knew would never do that. And he's immature anyway.

 Why am I saying this? I guess I need to let it all out :D

Araul94:

 [...]but being 14 and not having a bf is apparently quite strange to most people in my family (especially when my 15 year old cousin is dating someone who is 19).[...] 

Hi!

I'd like to tell you that I had my first boyfriend at 17!...And he was...31!...

His name was "Pascal". After my first love story wich end very badly, I didn't have a lot of boyfriends you know...I can give you the list 'cause it is so short!

Benoit( I was 18), Thomas( I was 19) , Jérôme( I was 19 ) Karime (I was 19 ) and Nicolas. I will celebrate my 30 years old on Marsh 10 2009.  As you can see Araul94, my list of boyfriends is a pity!  

I'm still waiting the next guy but not basing all my life on finding him. Sure that there's a man for me, just have to wait for the best moment for us to meet each other.

Just one advice, enjoy your life like it is now!!!!! The moments your share with your familly, your friends, your pets...or just you alone!

I don't mean that you must stop dreaming, (I'm a day dreamer...)

Give and share the most of love you can all around you. And don't take seriously what people says about the fact that you don't have a boyfriend. You are the only one to know what you desire or not.

Araul94:

 [...]Why am I saying this? I guess I need to let it all out :D [...]

Exactly!

 I am single and while I wouldn't mind going out and casually dating, I couldn't do anything serious right now.  I'm going to be moving thousands of miles in about 6 months so starting a relationship would be a bad idea.

Plus, options are limited.  I pretty much only have the option of dating guys I went to high school with.  haha.  I'll wait.

I just found out that the guy I've obsessed over for the past six months told my friend how he feels about me. She said "He says you're one of his best friends, but he'd never go out with you, because he doesn't want to jeopardize the friendship."

So I don't have a boyfriend, but I have a 'best friend'. I'm actually really happy about that. 

I've been single for such a long time now and honestly, I'm not looking for anyone. I enjoy my peace and quiet. 

Yeah, sometimes I think about it... I'd love to have a boyfriend, as I've said, but sometimes I think that I need to wait till find the right guy, cause I'd hate to be with someone who bothers me being too much jealous and this stuff...

Jazy:

[...] being too much jealous and this stuff...

yeah...too possessive, a guy who depends of you all the time, always need to talk to you, to hear your voice, to take you with him everywhere he goes...sending you thousand of e-mails a day, a guy who always need to hear and see that you love him, who think that you are: "the most beautifull thing in the world"or "the best thing that happend in his life", a guy who will never let another guy look at you,...at least, a guy who will try to do all these stuff...

hhhmmm...I don't know if it's the winter, the lack of sun, being single for so long, or the three...I would love to have a guy like this by my side...