jajaa... I guess I win... I'm SOOOO lonely...!!

diligentwolf:

everyone has a big interesting storryy n stufff

my story iss short but not so sweet, yet it does get to the point. haha.

i've never had a boyfriend/been on a date/anything like that. EVER.

I WIN! or do i lose?

lol I remember when I was 15. but I actually had my first date/ first kiss when I was 13. I really jumped into and and didnt know what I was doing. 2nd bf was really sweet and made me cds, but it only lasted 2 weeks. we both liked other people. theres too many. I wouldnt necesarily call them flings. it was just my way of getting to know guys.

At ur age, people are always changing their minds. people are exploring. so if your going out withsome coz you feel bad for them, dont. biggest mistake i ever made. made a guy linger and ruined a beautiful friendship but hes happy now which is the good part

best advice. dont chase. you dont want to put yourself out there and feel like a fool afterwards. let the guys chase. and dont do something to keep up with others. do what makes you feel comfortable.

Jazy:

Bella... you said a lot of sweet things... it made me feel so fine about myself... thanks!!... you have a very positive sight point and it's something great... I'm a positive person too, but... sometimes I feel bad too...

I'm loving this thread, there're a lot of good people round here, with amazing stories!!

Im glad I made you feel better Im also a positive person. I think the good of each outcome, and I love helping others and giving advice it makes me feel better you're such a lovely person [hug] <3333 xx

 Last month, I told my best friend I thought I was in love with him and since that day it is really awkward between us. I'm feeling quite strange too, as I usualy prefer girls... That's really complicated in my head right now lol

Oh girl… I know of what are you talking about… when I fell in love with the guy I’m actually in love we were good friends… but it was so strange for me, although I never told him anything

aw thanks for your advice Bella :) it means a lot :)

and i don't chase anyway, lol, i'm too shy. :P

_Marinaaa:

Last month, I told my best friend I thought I was in love with him and since that day it is really awkward between us. I'm feeling quite strange too, as I usualy prefer girls... That's really complicated in my head right now lol

oh dearrr. why is it that if we have a very close guy friend, we end up pouring out our hearts to him and things become different. also happened to me. best to enjoy the moment. if he wants you and ur both ready, then its something to be even more happy about besides a wonderful friendship.

diligentwolf:

aw thanks for your advice Bella :) it means a lot :)

and i don't chase anyway, lol, i'm too shy. :P

no problem i used to be shy. then mum said i wasnt socializing and told me to make friends with my neighbours or join the school band. lol.

Oh btw, i saw ur South Park pic. Do you play the violin?

bellarrr:

diligentwolf:

aw thanks for your advice Bella :) it means a lot :)

and i don't chase anyway, lol, i'm too shy. :P

no problem i used to be shy. then mum said i wasnt socializing and told me to make friends with my neighbours or join the school band. lol.

Oh btw, i saw ur South Park pic. Do you play the violin?

yea :), i've been playing for about 5 years now, i looovvveee ittt. i just started teaching myself piano last summer, so i kinda suck at it :P hahaha...i wish i had money to take lessons...

i'm not shy around friends...you should see how loud and obnoxious i get, lol. and i have a bunch of friends that are boys...but when it comes to a guy that i like, i can't even talk to him! lol i don't know why...

I am 21 and i have never had a boyfriend Oh dear what a shame, i don't care at the moment

diligentwolf:

bellarrr:

diligentwolf:

aw thanks for your advice Bella :) it means a lot :)

and i don't chase anyway, lol, i'm too shy. :P

no problem i used to be shy. then mum said i wasnt socializing and told me to make friends with my neighbours or join the school band. lol.

Oh btw, i saw ur South Park pic. Do you play the violin?

yea :), i've been playing for about 5 years now, i looovvveee ittt. i just started teaching myself piano last summer, so i kinda suck at it :P hahaha...i wish i had money to take lessons...

i'm not shy around friends...you should see how loud and obnoxious i get, lol. and i have a bunch of friends that are boys...but when it comes to a guy that i like, i can't even talk to him! lol i don't know why...

but all the good looking guys were either at band or living next door!!!! lol. nawwwww i wish I were there to teach you piano for freeee$$$ Also been playing the saxophone for 5 years

bellarrr:

but all the good looking guys were either at band or living next door!!!! lol.

 

....or sitting right next to me in math class :( hahahah i'm so pathetic :P

diligentwolf:

bellarrr:

but all the good looking guys were either at band or living next door!!!! lol.

 

....or sitting right next to me in math class :( hahahah i'm so pathetic :P

Or famous, beautiful musicians [sigh.....]

diligentwolf:

everyone has a big interesting storryy n stufff

my story iss short but not so sweet, yet it does get to the point. haha.

i've never had a boyfriend/been on a date/anything like that. EVER.

I WIN! or do i lose?

Wow, you sound A LOT like me, Kristen! hahaha. But it's even worse because I'm 18 and haven't had a boyfriend or anything. I'm going to be in college soon and I haven't even had a first kiss! That is sad. lol I am also very shy (but crazy and talkative around friends) and have a hard time talking to guys I like. Although last year I did manage to tell my crush (through a text) that I had feelings for him...and I got rejected! Sad event for the first time telling someone, but at least I did it and never have to wonder what could've happened or see him because he graduated. lol

I feel weird because the one guy that I know of who has liked me out of all 4 years in high school is a sophomore and he's never said anything to me. (I wouldn't have even known if I hadn't overheard his friend say something to him one day.) I don't know if I'm completely unapproachable or what, but he's liked me since last year and it's clear he still does by the things he does. Even so, he just got a girlfriend and I don't understand that.

Luckily I don't feel too awkward for not having had a boyfriend before because some of my closest friends haven't either and they're 18 as well. So everyday we just complain about how our lives suck and how we need boyfriends. lol Oh, but I will say that Prom is a horrible experience if you (1) don't like bad music, (2) don't like to dance, (3) don't have a date, and (4) don't want to see a guy you used to like make out with your friend from school. lol

So yeah, my love life suckssss. hahaha

pointgard022:

Oh, but I will say that Prom is a horrible experience if you (1) don't like bad music, (2) don't like to dance, (3) don't have a date, and (4) don't want to see a guy you used to like make out with your friend from school. lol

 

alcohol

 

Pi:

pointgard022:

Oh, but I will say that Prom is a horrible experience if you (1) don't like bad music, (2) don't like to dance, (3) don't have a date, and (4) don't want to see a guy you used to like make out with your friend from school. lol

 

alcohol

That does seem to solve most problems. Or something.

welll.... im pretty much at the point of breaking up with my boyfriend. Although i love him and been with him for so long, I cannot do it anymore. I want to have fun and stop being called every 15 mins. I want to go out with my friends, go on road trips, smile and wink at actual hot guys, enjoy life, travel the world, meet all the boardies [wooooo!!!] Im tired of having tabs made on me, being controlled. although I feel guilty for saying this, its only my heart saying that I am no longer attracted to the boyfriend  once was attracted to that didnt even lift a finger to help me move when I moved house. he did stuff all. I want to move to the UK and meet a nice handsome, tall, buff man that can sweep me off my feet. I want to be able to be with a man and feel butterflies, and always laugh and joke around, no arguments. And it will happen.

all the single ladies, all the single ladies, oh oh oh  

I have been with one guy my entire life. I had been with him for almost 2 years when he said one day that he "couldn't put up with me anymore." Didn't give me any other reason for the break-up. I was miserable. I just recently found out that not only was he jealous because I was getting awards and was in Honors classes, etc and he wasn't, but he was only dating me because I had the same first name and a similar personality to one of his exes that he still loved. We were friends at the time, (the ex and I) but when he started to ditch me for her, I was a bit jealous and we stopped talking. But now I know what was going on, we're on better terms now. So, yeah.

My issue now is being interested in guys who are highly inappropriate for me. (Like my 40-something math teacher...) Hah. Guess I'll never learn. =)

Angel_Of_Music12893:

I have been with one guy my entire life. I had been with him for almost 2 years when he said one day that he "couldn't put up with me anymore." Didn't give me any other reason for the break-up. I was miserable. I just recently found out that not only was he jealous because I was getting awards and was in Honors classes, etc and he wasn't, but he was only dating me because I had the same first name and a similar personality to one of his exes that he still loved. We were friends at the time, (the ex and I) but when he started to ditch me for her, I was a bit jealous and we stopped talking. But now I know what was going on, we're on better terms now. So, yeah.

My issue now is being interested in guys who are highly inappropriate for me. (Like my 40-something math teacher...) Hah. Guess I'll never learn. =)

Eugh I cant stand guys that try to shape you into something else.  that is such an awful thing to say. He does not deserve you! Keep up with your good marks. they will get you somewhere, leading you to your soul mate It's okay to have ....tiny ...secretive crushes on your teacher. daydreaming is okay. if you're taking things to the next level, listen to this story from my school.

At my previous high school, this music student in year 12 had a crush on this crappy weird grumpy music teacher. he's okay looking but he's an *ss to all the music students. except her. then everyone got suspicious, because we know he's married and just had a son born not long ago. withtin a year, after she graduated, he broke up with his wife and I see the girl around downtown pushing the teachers son in a pram around the streets. She was such a good musician and she just threw it away. She dresses very daggy now. And can you believe her father is a pastor?! omfg

I don't know who I pity most in that story, Bella.

 One of the girls in my year at school had a real thing for older men, so she used to fancy quite a few of our teachers...I could never really see it.  In first year, we had a lecturer whom quite a few of the girls (and one of the guys) liked; major embarassment ensued when they were busily discussing him and his nationality (made the mistake of doing it in the building) and he walked around the corner and calmly said, "Actually, I am ___."  From what I hear, this year's batch of first years are rather partial to him, also