hahaha losers. Even I know not discuss anything about anyone in a place where I know they might hear it or about it!!

Although I just said that, the other day at school assembly, I was whispering and laughing to my friend because the year level coordinator was patting and styling his hair mid-sentence for a micro-second. And he has only a few 'threads' of hair combed over. You know, like dolls hair - plugs!!! LOL

bellarrr:

diligentwolf:

bellarrr:

but all the good looking guys were either at band or living next door!!!! lol.

 

....or sitting right next to me in math class :( hahahah i'm so pathetic :P

Or famous, beautiful musicians [sigh.....]

haha. or sitting right next to me in math class :))))))))))))))) that sad face has turned into a happy happy happy face...with wayy to many mouths...

i help him out with stuff he doesn't understand (and he helped me once too haha). one day we practically worked together on a worksheet/assignment. i honestly think he's just as nervous as me, if not more nervous...cuz his voice was all shaky the first few times he asked me a question. he kept fixing his hair yesterday, and the day before (he's usually a really quiet and shy type of person. he never talks) he was all actin' out and stuff. it was crazy. n he smiles at me a lot. mostly when i look at the clock (which, from my [short] perspective, is right above his head). now if only i could strike up a conversation while helping him out/at the end of class. the first day he asked for help i was pretty surprised, since he usually just asks the teacher. and there's this other girl who sits on the other side of him that gets 100%'s on almost all her tests. so why me? lol

btw. he's a hockey player :) did i mention that hockey is one of my favorite sports? we should have a face-off one day.
but he would prolly beat the crap outa me. i never played on a team. hahaha. pathetic. but where's a GIRL gonna find a street hockey team? seriously.

@ Kristin: If he is playing with his hair a lot when you're around he is probably attracted to you.  When a person is attracted to someone they will often touch their hair or neck and will make subconcious efforts to touch the person.  Also, guys will usually face the person that their attracted to directly when speaking to them if they can.  And if he is going out of his way to strike up a conversation then it seems to me like he is interested!

If you're looking for a way to strike up a conversation why not talk about hockey since that seems to be a common interest?

 

Btw, slightly off topic but someone I know loves hockey and her first name is Kristin too. haha weird!

^hmmmm. nawww you & hockey man. Im keeping my fingers crossed that really soon, you both finally say you like each other, then you you date, then your friends say your sitting in the tree K-I-S-S-I-N-G etc.

kaye:

Btw, slightly off topic but someone I know loves hockey and her first name is Kristin too. haha weird!

haha insannne. the only difference is the spelling of our names :P Kristen with an e haha. it's okay though cause everybody i've ever met has made that mistake :)

 haha my friend embarrassed the crap out of me a few days ago. we were just walkin down the hallway together and we started walking past the guy i like and she started flipping out. she was like "oh my god look who it iss! oh my god!" i just said "gooo awayyyyyyy pleeeezee kay thanks byyyeee" and went up the stairway. which was the stairway he was also going up right behind me. thanks eryn. (my friend).

 Kristen, sorry!

Hun, you need to carpe diem that right away!  We're all (me) waiting with bated breath here because our (my) love lives are utterly and depressingly nonexistant. :3

Kristen, when will our friends ever learn?! Its like, when I want to tell him or ask him, Ill do it in my own time, I don't need you yelling it out across the room and making it way too conspicuous. geez!

Kaye, you'll find someone Like they say, "Love lives in strange places." You'll probably end up finding the truest of all loves trying to steal you car park or on a bus.

 Heh, funny you should say that, Bella...I always think there's something about buses-or trains, more, I suppose-the way you can be stopped in the station facing opposite diretions and see all the people really clearly for a moment and then you get whisked off to your respective destinations.  When I'm feeling philosophical (read: silly)  I wonder what their lives are like and what would have happened if we'd actually met.  Clearly silly hour is curently approaching again.

naomi:

   I wonder what their lives are like and what would have happened if we'd actually met.  Clearly silly hour is curently approaching again.

Not silly at all. I usually think like that. Or I think what might be happening in the persons life [via facial expressions/body language], even though I dont know them.

well. that guy. he doesn't like me. at least i know that now. My friends went and got his number and texted him asking him if he liked me (of course without letting me know about it at all) and he said no. soooo...i'm over him now. aaaaannndd if he says anything to me about it in class, he can rot in a ditch :) cause i'm not upset at all. and i'm not embarassed. so there...

diligentwolf:

well. that guy. he doesn't like me. at least i know that now. My friends went and got his number and texted him asking him if he liked me (of course without letting me know about it at all) and he said no. soooo...i'm over him now. aaaaannndd if he says anything to me about it in class, he can rot in a ditch :) cause i'm not upset at all. and i'm not embarassed. so there...

 

if his friends texted you asking the same would you tell them 'yes' like that?

I'm one of those girls who catch herself in thinking "God, I want a boyfriend". Truth is, I know it'll be too complicated for me at present moment to have one, so I run away from guys who could be potential boyfriends. It doesn't mean that I'll never want one, it's just that there's no room or time in my life right now.

I have a friend though who basically pisses me off when it comes to love life. (I excuse my language). The reason why she does that, is because she seems almost too desperate to get a boyfriend. You know the type?

Everytime I'm hanging out with her, she's continues to talk about boys, how she needs to find one, how I need to find one, etc. etc. and if you try telling her that maybe she should slow down and just enjoy life, she gets upset.

I truly understand the fact that she wants to have a boyfriend (because deep down, don't we all?), but she's rushing it, and that's just never a good thing.

So ladies, don't rush for love - it'll come when you least expect it.

Pi:

diligentwolf:

well. that guy. he doesn't like me. at least i know that now. My friends went and got his number and texted him asking him if he liked me (of course without letting me know about it at all) and he said no. soooo...i'm over him now. aaaaannndd if he says anything to me about it in class, he can rot in a ditch :) cause i'm not upset at all. and i'm not embarassed. so there...

 

if his friends texted you asking the same would you tell them 'yes' like that?

Eughh if I had friends like that, I would tell them to p*ss off. if they want me to be happy dwelling over a crush, they should not interfere. they're just jealous. They envy you. And you are pretty. so use it. talk more to guys Im sure you'll find someone.... even cuter

 

Reagga:

I'm one of those girls who catch herself in thinking "God, I want a boyfriend". Truth is, I know it'll be too complicated for me at present moment to have one, so I run away from guys who could be potential boyfriends. It doesn't mean that I'll never want one, it's just that there's no room or time in my life right now.

I have a friend though who basically pisses me off when it comes to love life. (I excuse my language). The reason why she does that, is because she seems almost too desperate to get a boyfriend. You know the type?

Everytime I'm hanging out with her, she's continues to talk about boys, how she needs to find one, how I need to find one, etc. etc. and if you try telling her that maybe she should slow down and just enjoy life, she gets upset.

I truly understand the fact that she wants to have a boyfriend (because deep down, don't we all?), but she's rushing it, and that's just never a good thing.

So ladies, don't rush for love - it'll come when you least expect it.

Oh god. Dont push the potential bf's away! You could be happy... well ventually. jsut tell them you dont have much time. if they like you /love you so much, they wont care. as long as you're their girl

I know the type. I am that type. but I try not to be annoying. when I meantion it, its pretty much me screaming out for help. She maybe wants you to introduce her to someone. I dont know. But maybe she's tired of being alone. Maybe she's just realizing that that's the one thing that will make her happy. Once you find true love, nothing else matters. Maybe the new guy will give her the confidence to let her get on with other things, like work etc.

Reagga:

I'm one of those girls who catch herself in thinking "God, I want a boyfriend". Truth is, I know it'll be too complicated for me at present moment to have one, so I run away from guys who could be potential boyfriends. It doesn't mean that I'll never want one, it's just that there's no room or time in my life right now.

I have a friend though who basically pisses me off when it comes to love life. (I excuse my language). The reason why she does that, is because she seems almost too desperate to get a boyfriend. You know the type?

Everytime I'm hanging out with her, she's continues to talk about boys, how she needs to find one, how I need to find one, etc. etc. and if you try telling her that maybe she should slow down and just enjoy life, she gets upset.

I truly understand the fact that she wants to have a boyfriend (because deep down, don't we all?), but she's rushing it, and that's just never a good thing.

So ladies, don't rush for love - it'll come when you least expect it.

i totally understand what you mean.
a friend of mine is just like what you described and she always tries to convince me that it's imperative that we get boyfriends *lol* but , like you, now is not the right time for me to get involved. honestly , i don't even want to!
is that so bad?

and it makes me mad that some think a girl is lonely if she's single.
i'm not lonely! i actually enjoy hanging out with a lot of friends than just go on a date *lol*
sorry for my rant

Pi:

diligentwolf:

well. that guy. he doesn't like me. at least i know that now. My friends went and got his number and texted him asking him if he liked me (of course without letting me know about it at all) and he said no. soooo...i'm over him now. aaaaannndd if he says anything to me about it in class, he can rot in a ditch :) cause i'm not upset at all. and i'm not embarassed. so there...

 

if his friends texted you asking the same would you tell them 'yes' like that?

haha noopee. i was p.o'd at my friends but they do stuff without thinking...a lot....lol.... but idk. its too late now. he won't talk to me anymore. won't even look in my general direction. doesn't ask me for help anymore, just asks the teacher. oh well. i'm over him.

bellarrr:

Oh god. Dont push the potential bf's away! You could be happy... well ventually. jsut tell them you dont have much time. if they like you /love you so much, they wont care. as long as you're their girl

I know the type. I am that type. but I try not to be annoying. when I meantion it, its pretty much me screaming out for help. She maybe wants you to introduce her to someone. I dont know. But maybe she's tired of being alone. Maybe she's just realizing that that's the one thing that will make her happy. Once you find true love, nothing else matters. Maybe the new guy will give her the confidence to let her get on with other things, like work etc.

Coulda, woulda, shoulda - same s*** in my eyes.

No, truth is, I don't have the time, and potential boyfriends won't wait. That's the sad truth. Another sad truth is that I don't believe in love. I haven't seen proof of it, so therefore I don't believe it exists (I'm so cynical).

About my friend, her problem is that she's looking for Mr. Perfect, and in theory, that's all fine. She has no problems finding guys for herself, and she's had a boyfriend for pretty much all of her life.

I think it's fine that she wants a boyfriend, but I just don't want to hear about her latest love of her life that she'll dump a week later, do you know what I'm saying? It gets tiring, especially when she don't want to listen to other people's opinions.

ana_lore:

i totally understand what you mean.
a friend of mine is just like what you described and she always tries to convince me that it's imperative that we get boyfriends *lol* but , like you, now is not the right time for me to get involved. honestly , i don't even want to!
is that so bad?

and it makes me mad that some think a girl is lonely if she's single.
i'm not lonely! i actually enjoy hanging out with a lot of friends than just go on a date *lol*
sorry for my rant

I'm the same, I'm happy not having a boyfriend and I honestly prefer hanging out with my mate's instead of going out on a date. :]

Me and one of my friends talked about past relationships today, and it suddenly struck me that I had learned from past experiences. Almost all of my boyfriends has been very possessive of me, and I realised that I don't want that again. I'm an independent woman who needs my space.

So, my conclusion - if all guys are like my ex-boyfriends, I'll go *** u_u (just kidding) ... lemme try again: if all guys are like my ex-boyfriends, I'll just stay single forever. (what a nice thought actually)

bellarrr:

Kaye, you'll find someone Like they say, "Love lives in strange places." You'll probably end up finding the truest of all loves trying to steal you car park or on a bus.

 

Well, it isn't like I am trying to find someone atm.  I'm about to move 3,000 miles and I don't need someone to hold me back. :)

kaye:

bellarrr:

Kaye, you'll find someone Like they say, "Love lives in strange places." You'll probably end up finding the truest of all loves trying to steal you car park or on a bus.

 

Well, it isn't like I am trying to find someone atm.  I'm about to move 3,000 miles and I don't need someone to hold me back. :)

I know I know, But when you want to, they'll be closer than you think

EDIT: oh I almost forgot!!!! In last 7 days, Ive been asked out by 4 guys, and had 2 funny marriage proposals. OMG hahaha I love the attention

but I gotta/wanna choose someone before I leave them all hanging.

dang girrlll you're lucky. i've been asked out by 2 guys in my entire life. one was a creeper/stalker in 6th grade (who offered to pay me a dollar to dance with him at a school dance), and the other was some guy my friends hated that i secretly liked but said no to anyway on the last day of school in 7th grade. I'm a pretty lonely person haha.

 (oh yea and then there was that guy who USED to go out with one of my friends who was a creep and kept hitting on me WHILE they were going out. what a jerk, right?)

I thought i gave up on liking anyone for a while, until friday night...cuz now...diff story haha.

my friend actually came up with a good plan the other day. Her boyfriend (who is in on it) is friends with this cute guy i kinda like (they're on the tennis team), and they're gonna play tennis together one day, and me and my friend are gonna "randomly come across" them...as if we never expected it. lol. then we'll hang out with them and get lunch/dinner at a diner or something. just as friends. cuz i am kinda friends with this guy anyway so it'll be more fun than nerve-wracking.

i think i posted about this guy in another thread...he was the only guy at my table for the strings ice cream fundraiser thing...for the record he came up to ME and said hello to ME and started all the conversations while waiting in line :D. and complimented on my design for the concert program :D :D (oh and asked a really stupid question about it...shall i share it with everyone? that would be mean.....oh what the heck...i thought it was cute...he asked "soo...did you draw all of the programs by hand? or did you just make one and photocopy the rest?" hahaha aah god. there were more than a hundred copies, dude.) one of my friends who was there has a picture of us together wearing random mardi gras bead necklaces that my other friend randomly pulled out of her purse and gave to me...but she's in college now and i never really see her, so idk how to get it from her haha.

end of wall-o-post. sorry for writing about stuff nobody cares about...but i got nobody else to talk to haha...