The Lovers Are Losing *{The Singles’ Thread!}*
Last post 11-18-2009 12:43 AM by Jazy. 172 replies.
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La Lisa


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Re: The Lovers Are Losing *{The Singles’ Thread!}*
Reagga:I'm one of those girls who catch herself in thinking "God, I want a boyfriend". Truth is, I know it'll be too complicated for me at present moment to have one, so I run away from guys who could be potential boyfriends. It doesn't mean that I'll never want one, it's just that there's no room or time in my life right now.
Aaaa, I so recognize that. It's like, whenever a guy starts paying attention to me and I start liking him, I back off. But now there's something strange going on. I've never been the kind of girl that falls in love with a guy just like that, but now I've started really liking this guy of which I've never even talked to. But I know he's got the same interests as me (Beatles, 'old music', he plays guitar, he's weird enough for me XD). Even my teachers have been trying to get us together, that's why i started finding out about him anyway. This feeling just won't go away, which is really bugging me. I don't want to fall in love, but I've been liking him since a few months now. Seriously, I'm trying to avoid him at school, but I can't. He's everywhere; at my school (standing in front of my locker), at the place where I have guitar lessons, at my favourite recordshop, when I'm biking to school, at concerts. It is so annoying. Trying to avoid him isn't working.
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bellarrr


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@diligentwolf : tennis? LOL I have a feeling you'll meet Mr. Right at some sporting event 
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diligentwolf


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lol. ironically, i was planning on joining the tennis team a few months ago, and now that i don't HAVE to join cross country anymore, i can join tennis this fall :)
now i just have to learn how to play tennis....lol
♪♫♪♫♪♫Kristen♫♪♫♪♫♪  "I keep a lighter in my back pocket all the time. I'm not a smoker, I just really like certain songs." -Demetri Martin
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diligentwolf


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heyy Jazy haven't seen you around here in a while! it's good to see you again. :)
♪♫♪♫♪♫Kristen♫♪♫♪♫♪  "I keep a lighter in my back pocket all the time. I'm not a smoker, I just really like certain songs." -Demetri Martin
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lonelysoul91


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I am newly-ish single now...
my (now ex) boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, mostly because he works all summer, and wouldn't be able to see me at all, plus I'm going off to college in the fall, and a long distance relationship was something that neither of us wanted. I'm still sad it didn't work out though. He was, and well, still is a great guy, although his family scared me a lot....not intimidating....but just sort of...creepy....
His mom really couldn't "let go", and pretty much was like "um you can't hang out with people, you have to spend time with your family all the time."
Poor guy. He deserves better than that....
...I'm hoping that college guys and their families are less scary.
-Melani  
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pointgard022


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diligentwolf:lol. ironically, i was planning on joining the tennis team a few months ago, and now that i don't HAVE to join cross country anymore, i can join tennis this fall :)
now i just have to learn how to play tennis....lol
Sorry for the randomness of this, but you should totally play tennis!!! lol I played tennis the past 4 years at my high school and I had a blast. (I even got to go to State twice...yay me! lol) And it's easy to learn and improve with practice. :)
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Jazy


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diligentwolf:heyy Jazy haven't seen you around here in a while! it's good to see you again. :)
Sorry... since I started school again I don't have many time to come here, but I'm on winter holidays so... how are you doing??!...
well talking about "love", the guy I was in love with had a talk with my bestfriend and she asked him for his girlfriend and he told her that they weren't together anymore, since she realized that he was going out with another girl at the same time...
I just want to kill him now, I never imagined he could do such a thing, he looks so sweet and lovely all the time... 
 "... I painted this to look like you and me as we are now ..."
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lonelysoul91


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lonelysoul91:I am newly-ish single now...
my (now ex) boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, mostly because he works all summer, and wouldn't be able to see me at all, plus I'm going off to college in the fall, and a long distance relationship was something that neither of us wanted.
UPDATE: SCUM NOW HAS A GIRLFRIEND. Last I checked, IT WAS STILL SUMMER.
-Melani  
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Krezzy


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Re: The Lovers Are Losing *{The Singles’ Thread!}*
lonelysoul91: lonelysoul91:I am newly-ish single now...
my (now ex) boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, mostly because he works all summer, and wouldn't be able to see me at all, plus I'm going off to college in the fall, and a long distance relationship was something that neither of us wanted.
UPDATE: SCUM NOW HAS A GIRLFRIEND. Last I checked, IT WAS STILL SUMMER. 
This guy once done that to me too. He broke up with me because he didn't wanted to be 'stuck' on somebody and 3 weeks later he goes telling me how awesome his new girlfriend is compared to me ps: I'm single now for almost a year and enjoying it, especially when I see what my friend is going through
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Jazy


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well, I have no luck in love...
do you remember him?? --> Jazy: the guy I was in love with had a talk with my bestfriend and she asked him for his girlfriend and he told her that they weren't together anymore, since she realized that he was going out with another girl at the same time...
well after I talked with my friend I said to myself that it was better to haven't been with him, I was trying to forget him and I had to go to a family party... really funny and fancy and all... and I've met a guy that I haven't seen since I was 11... the point is that now he is REAAAAAALLLLYYY handsome, and I liked him... he was looking at me all the time and we danced together... ... after a few days he sent me a mail chain, nothing interesting but it means that he asked for my e-mail to my cousin!!... ... but sadly he tried to add me to the msn to talk to me and my msn doesn't work... so I haven't talked or seen him again... and it was about 4 months ago!!!! I have no hope to meet him again... .. it's a really shame 'cause he really likes me, and I'm not used to like guys at first sight!
aside it I got really ungry when I read about that guy, lonelysoul...!! but you gotta think that he doesn't deserve you!! it shows how childish he's!!!
Kisses girls!
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diligentwolf


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Jazy:
Krezzy:This guy once done that to me too. He broke up with me because he didn't wanted to be 'stuck' on somebody and 3 weeks later he goes telling me how awesome his new girlfriend is compared to me
I hate when guys do those things!!... well, my bestfriend did the same with her old and her new boyfriends, I never understood that 
that's terrible :( why are people so cruel?
♪♫♪♫♪♫Kristen♫♪♫♪♫♪  "I keep a lighter in my back pocket all the time. I'm not a smoker, I just really like certain songs." -Demetri Martin
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Ting Bling


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Re: The Lovers Are Losing *{The Singles’ Thread!}*
lonelysoul91: lonelysoul91:I am newly-ish single now...
my (now ex) boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, mostly because he works all summer, and wouldn't be able to see me at all, plus I'm going off to college in the fall, and a long distance relationship was something that neither of us wanted.
UPDATE: SCUM NOW HAS A GIRLFRIEND. Last I checked, IT WAS STILL SUMMER.
Did you spaz at him for me yet?
live to love. love to live.
Vancouver - September 11th, 2009
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Krezzy


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Thanks for all the compassion, girls!  Just remember that all the s*** you're going through now, will only make you stronger in the end (trust me, I know). I believe that everything happens for a reason, maybe when this guy breaks up with you, you suddenly notice this other cute guy and he might be Mr. Right
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lonelysoul91


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Re: The Lovers Are Losing *{The Singles’ Thread!}*
Ting Bling: lonelysoul91: lonelysoul91:I am newly-ish single now...
my (now ex) boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, mostly because he works all summer, and wouldn't be able to see me at all, plus I'm going off to college in the fall, and a long distance relationship was something that neither of us wanted.
UPDATE: SCUM NOW HAS A GIRLFRIEND. Last I checked, IT WAS STILL SUMMER.
Did you spaz at him for me yet?
Not yet. He's in Guatemala now. Idiot. I will yell at him before I go to school though.
-Melani  
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kaye


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Re: The Lovers Are Losing *{The Singles’ Thread!}*
lonelysoul91: Ting Bling: lonelysoul91: lonelysoul91:I am newly-ish single now...
my (now ex) boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, mostly because he works all summer, and wouldn't be able to see me at all, plus I'm going off to college in the fall, and a long distance relationship was something that neither of us wanted.
UPDATE: SCUM NOW HAS A GIRLFRIEND. Last I checked, IT WAS STILL SUMMER.
Did you spaz at him for me yet?
Not yet. He's in Guatemala now. Idiot. I will yell at him before I go to school though. You should punch him in the GD throat for me. :D
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lonelysoul91


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Re: The Lovers Are Losing *{The Singles’ Thread!}*
kaye: lonelysoul91: Ting Bling: lonelysoul91: lonelysoul91:I am newly-ish single now...
my (now ex) boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, mostly because he works all summer, and wouldn't be able to see me at all, plus I'm going off to college in the fall, and a long distance relationship was something that neither of us wanted.
UPDATE: SCUM NOW HAS A GIRLFRIEND. Last I checked, IT WAS STILL SUMMER.
Did you spaz at him for me yet?
Not yet. He's in Guatemala now. Idiot. I will yell at him before I go to school though. You should punch him in the GD throat for me. :D
If I ever see him again, I just might.
-Melani  
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Keaniemoshie


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As if I had little pain because of my ex-crush, I've fallen in love again It happened so quick that I just couldn't make anything. We met in summer school, which I'm still in, in the very annoying Eng 211 lecture. Now I'm behaving very normally to him than I used to behave my ex-crush(the reason why my ex-crush got far away from me is me, behaving stupidly and meaninglessly to him). We get on with each other well, he is crazy about cats like me. I sometimes feel that he is looking at me, but I'm sure that I'm just lying to myself.
Summer school ends on next Friday, and I'm returning home, which now, I'm not really sure if I want to... At least, I got his e-mail address, which make me fly after weeks of pressure of the lectures, and that is the only thing which I think as a relief.
I hate fall in one-sided loves...
*~Keaniemoshie~* To be a biologist...hopefully!! 
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