yessicachaplin23:

no way! that's not stupid Jazy... we all feel the same...

now,  I'm very confused and feels like a fool ... two days ago I decided to be brave and tell everything to "that guy" ...the problem is we don't see us very often, so ...I sent him a message where I explain to him what I feel... the result? ...NOTHING!! he didn't reject me... he just ignored me! ... well, ignored my message ...he still hasn't told me anything (yes, as some song says "... but you haven't told me anything" lol) and I think that says it all... he is not interested :/...and worst of all is ...we were very good friends and now I think I messed up... he doesn't talk with me ... I think everything is over... another Mr. Wrong to my list...

 Aww Jess dont feel stupid! At least you had the courage to actually tell "that guy" how you really feel, some people can't even do that! And maybe he hasn't replied because he feels the same way. Maybe the best thing you can do is talk to him and ask why he's acting the way he is. What do you have to lose?

apple1693:

yessicachaplin23:

no way! that's not stupid Jazy... we all feel the same...

now,  I'm very confused and feels like a fool ... two days ago I decided to be brave and tell everything to "that guy" ...the problem is we don't see us very often, so ...I sent him a message where I explain to him what I feel... the result? ...NOTHING!! he didn't reject me... he just ignored me! ... well, ignored my message ...he still hasn't told me anything (yes, as some song says "... but you haven't told me anything" lol) and I think that says it all... he is not interested :/...and worst of all is ...we were very good friends and now I think I messed up... he doesn't talk with me ... I think everything is over... another Mr. Wrong to my list...

 Aww Jess dont feel stupid! At least you had the courage to actually tell "that guy" how you really feel, some people can't even do that! And maybe he hasn't replied because he feels the same way. Maybe the best thing you can do is talk to him and ask why he's acting the way he is. What do you have to lose?

Hope everything works out for you xxxx

aaaw Jess!! thanks for telling me that it's not stupid at all... it always makes me feel better know that there's people feeling the same that I'm feeling...

and I also think as the other girls!... maybe he's confused... (it's obvious that the boys live in confusion ) lol!... but probably he will clear himself up soon and he'll be able to tell you something!!...

as Em's told you, at least you were brave enough to tell him what you feel... that's the only way you have to get a chance... you'd feel worse with yourself if you wouldn't tell him anything...

awww thanks girls!!! you make me feel better...  and you're right, I should wait and talk to him... though, maybe I'm realizing that he's not worth it...

it happened to me a lot of times... after thinking a little I realized that he didn't worth so much stress

if a guy doesnt respond, i would guess he isnt interested, because if he was, then he would! This might surprise you but in my experience guys do a lot of the chasing after girls.. so if a girl says "hey i'm interested" most guys would think its their lucky day! Unless of course they arent interested.

So just let it go, and look for a person who will return your attention, you know you tried, and were brave enough. Its more than some can manage.

thanks! you're absolutely right... now, I think *that guy* doesn't worth it... as some song says: "I don't know why I waste my time getting hung up about the things you say... when I open my eyes and its a lovely day...!!"

yessicachaplin23:

"I don't know why I waste my time getting hung up about the things you say... when I open my eyes and its a lovely day...!!"

lol! I always sing those lines to myself as well... I have chased this boy for years now... and he seems to don't realize about it, or he's not interested as you said... but I haven't been as brave as you Jessi to tell him how I feel... maybe 'cause I know that he used to be in love with me when we were way younger and well... he didn't like me then...

don't worry Jaz, maybe he isn't the right person for you... surely, our prince charming is somewhere, just have to be patient...

and yes, Keane has helped me much in that aspect...  they have been with me with their music all these years and make me feel I'm not alone ...aggg now, I wonder why we always fall in love with someone is not in love with us? *sucks!*

yessicachaplin23:

I wonder why we always fall in love with someone is not in love with us? *sucks!*

I know, I know...

last year I thought I had forgotten of this boy and another guy appeared... he was a new mate at school and my best friend spent all the time trying to get us  together... the point is that we both liked each other but everyone told me that he wasn't for me... (one of my best friends, my mum...lol!)  I've heard them and I stopped teasing him but now I've started to wonder what would happen if I wouldn't do it.. would we have been a good couple?? or everyone else was right??...

Jazy:

last year I thought I had forgotten of this boy and another guy appeared... he was a new mate at school and my best friend spent all the time trying to get us  together... the point is that we both liked each other but everyone told me that he wasn't for me... (one of my best friends, my mum...lol!)  I've heard them and I stopped teasing him but now I've started to wonder what would happen if I wouldn't do it.. would we have been a good couple?? or everyone else was right??...

ugh sometimes that causes many problems... confuses us more! so, what should we do? follow what we feel or the advice of others? well either way... for me, everything usually ends up being a big disaster... pfff

Do u know wot 1 1 of my favourate sayings is ;

Follow ur heart not ur Head :)

Lollzie:

Follow ur heart not ur Head :)

that's a great phrase... that makes me thing a lot